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Women don’t want men who are submissive and overly agreeable. We want leaders. We want a strong man who will protect us and our kids. We want someone we can depend on. Someone who can make decisions. Someone who isn’t afraid to be firm when he needs to be. This idea that the perfect man is just a guy who agrees with everything you say and let’s you, no, makes you make every decision is gross and backwards. It’s sad that feminism has convinced so meny men and women that a weak man is an ideal man.
i need a strong man to take care of me and our children 🥰
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tocopherole-deactivated20230725:
I feel like serving some marriage advice as I’m currently cooking dinner for my husband at nearly midnight. My best tips for a happy marriage life are these two: Ignore what people tell you who don’t have the marriage you want and spoil each other rotten.
My wonderful man loves food as much as I do and so I glady ignore my own hunger for a few extra hours to make sure he gets a freshly homecooked meal every day that we can enjoy together.Other people have declared me mad over this but guess what? We’re going to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary before we turn 30. The only people I will take any advice from are old couples with 50+ years experience of making it work 😇 Plus, my husband returns the love by getting me fresh flowers each week, opening doors for me, never letting me carry heavy things or putting on my coat by myself, working hard to fulfill my every wish etc.
In short:
I don’t listen to single people.
I don’t listen to married people who show each other disrespect, even yelling during fighting is unacceptable for us.
I don’t listen to couples with a modern view of gender roles.
I thank the Lord every day for blessing me with this marriage and show my husband the respect he deserves.
It’s really that simple ;)
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